اچھا سوچیں اور اچھا بولیں کیوں کہ بد گمانی اور بد زبانی
دو ایسے عیب ہیں جو انسان کے ہر کمال کو زوال میں بدل دیتے ہیں
This phrase describes two fundamental aspects of human ethics and behavior that can affect any person’s personality and success.
Confusion:
Prejudice means having unfounded or negative thoughts about others. This attitude creates jealousy, hatred, and mistrust within a person.
- Pessimism deprives a person of positive thinking and spoils his relationships.
- This attitude makes a person busy looking for the faults of others instead of improving his own personality, thereby diminishing his own perfection.
Profanity:
Profanity means using inappropriate, harsh, or hurtful words. This habit lowers the dignity and status of a person.
- The tongue is man’s greatest weapon, and bad language can break the hearts of others.
- Malice obscures a person’s good character, no matter how high his qualities.
Result:
This sentence teaches us that thinking well and speaking well is the basis of human success and greatness. Mistrust and bad language are the vices that destroy all the virtues and achievements of a person. If we want to preserve our perfection, we have to keep our thoughts positive and our language soft.
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Message:
Keep good thoughts in your heart and speak words of love and respect with your tongue, this is what makes a person truly great.
کچھ زخموں کے نشان نہیں ہوتے
کچھ درد بارے خاموش ہوتے ہیں
This sentence reflects the pains and sufferings of life which are not visible on the outside, but affect a person deeply inside.
No signs of injury:
Some wounds are not physical but emotional or psychological. These wounds are not visible outwardly, but their pain remains in the heart and soul of a person.
- Such wounds are caused by past bitter experiences, betrayal, or loss.
- No one else can see these wounds, but they have a profound effect on a person’s thinking, behavior, and life.
Silent Pain:
There are some pains that a person cannot describe or share with anyone.
- These pains remain buried within and man faces them in solitude.
- This silent pain is often associated with strong people, who bear their pain with patience and courage rather than projecting it onto others.
Message:
This phrase reminds us that everyone is facing some kind of pain and challenges in their life, even if we don’t see them. That is why we should treat others with tenderness and compassion, because we do not know what kind of wounds or silent pains they are going through.
ہر درد انسان کو سبق دیتا ہے
ہر سبق انسان کو بدل دیتا ہے
This sentence describes the reality of life and the impact of experiences very beautifully.
Every pain teaches man a lesson:
- Pains, difficulties, and sufferings in life are like a test for a person.
- These pains are not just torture but life lessons that make a person strong, wise and tolerant.
- Every pain teaches us which decisions in life are good and which are wrong. It gives us an opportunity to learn from our mistakes.
Every lesson changes a person:
- When a person learns from a pain or difficulty, he is not the same.
- Lessons lead to change in a person, be it positive or negative. This change changes a person’s behavior, way of thinking, and outlook on life.
- Lessons learned give man awareness and wisdom, and he is able to make better decisions in the future.
Message:
This phrase convinces us that every pain or suffering in life should be seen not only as a difficulty but as an opportunity. These pains and lessons help us become better people.
پہلے عزیز بناتے ہیں پھر مریض بنا کر چھوڑ دیتے ہیں
This phrase describes the harsh reality of human relationships and emotions, where at the beginning of the relationship there is love and importance, but over time the relationship becomes burdensome or painful.
First make dear:
- In the beginning, people form relationships with love, sincerity and attention. They make the other person dear (close and important) and try to spend time with them, share feelings and build a strong relationship.
- Everything seems beautiful and pleasant in this phase.
Then the patient leaves by:
- When this love or attention is lost over time, the same relationship becomes a source of pain, anxiety and agony.
- People tend to ignore the relationship instead of nurturing it, and the other person becomes emotionally broken, as if he or she becomes “sick.”
- It is caused by emotional illness, unfulfilled desires, or neglect, and affects the heart and mind.
Message:
This sentence teaches us that consistency, sincerity and responsibility are essential in relationships. The expression of love and attention should not be temporary but should last a lifetime. If you love someone, take care of their dignity and feelings, so that the relationship will bring you comfort and joy, not burden and pain.
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تم نے نصیب پہ چھوڑا مجھے
میں مکافات عمل پہ بات ختم کرتا ہوں
This poem describes the emotional depth and delicate reality of human relationships.
You left me to fate:
- In this stanza, the poet is describing his pain and throat.
- He says he was left helpless by someone he loved or expected. But he left his connection or responsibility to “fate,” as if he left it to fate instead of doing something himself.
- This attitude reflects apathy and selfishness, where a person blames everything on fate instead of taking responsibility for their actions.
I conclude with the consequences:
- The poet ends his answer by saying that he leaves his pain or suffering on the principle of maqafa-e-e-Alam (deed-for-deed).
- Punishment is a natural principle, according to which every man receives the result of his actions, whether good or bad.
- This attitude of the poet shows that instead of taking revenge or complaining, he leaves the matter to the justice of Allah, and believes that whatever happened or will happen, will be according to justice.
Message:
This poem teaches us to believe in patience and justice. When faced with indifference or injustice in life, we should be patient and believe in the principle of reciprocity. Every action is answered in this world or in the Hereafter, and Allah’s justice is the most perfect.
آنکھوں سے میری اس لیے لالی نہیں جاتی
یادوں سے کوئی رات خالی نہیں جاتی
This phrase reflects a deep love and sorrowful emotion, where one’s memories become a part of one’s life.
My eyes don’t get red because of this:
- “Redness” refers to salty tears in the eyes that indicate grief or intensity of emotion.
- The poet says that his eyes never find peace, because someone’s memory has given him such grief or pain that he cannot get rid of it.
- This sadness describes that when memories of love or deep attachment overwhelm the heart and mind, one’s heart and eyes are restless.
No night is empty of memories:
- This verse says that before going to sleep at night, those memories dominate the heart and mind, and the person remains immersed in these memories.
- Every night those memories disturb his sleep and have become a part of his life.
- “Empty” here means that the night is not complete without these memories, and one cannot escape them.
Message:
This phrase reminds us that some relationships or experiences are so deep that their memories become part of our lives, and these memories will always affect us in one form or another. This poetry shows us that after love or the separation of a loved one, the effect of memories always remains on the heart and mind of a person.
میرے چہرے سے میرا درد نہ پڑھ پاؤ کے عمر
میری عاد ت ہے ہر بات پر مسکرا دینا
This sentence shows the emotional depth of man and his endurance.
Don’t read my pain from my face:
- In this stanza, the poet says that no sorrow or pain is visible on his face. He is so good at hiding his pain that the other person does not understand his condition.
- These are the people who are breaking down inside, but outwardly they keep a smile or a calmness.
At age I have a habit of smiling at everything:
- The poet says that the smile has become a part of his personality. No matter how much trouble or trouble he is going through, he has a habit of smiling at everything and showing that everything is fine.
- This attitude of his is an expression of his effort not to reveal his weaknesses to others and to strengthen his position.
Message:
This sentence tells us that some people bear their pain and suffering inside and show the world that they are strong with a smile on their face. It can also be a form of showmanship, where a person tries to hide his feelings so that others do not see his weakness. But it is also a fact that sometimes the pain inside is so intense that a person still puts on a smile in front of the world so as not to disturb others.
جنہیں نیند نہیں آتی انہیں معلوم ہے
صبح ہونے میں کتنے زمانے لگتے ہیں
This phrase describes the deep feelings and inner state of people who are mentally or emotionally restless, and their sleep is affected.
Insomniacs know:
- This verse says that those who do not get sleep, are so restless or disturbed inside that there is a deep restlessness in their heart and mind.
- Insomnia can be a sign of not only physical, but also mental or emotional distress. When a person is mentally disturbed, he stays awake throughout the night with countless thoughts running through his mind.
How long does morning take:
- In this stanza, the poet tells that when there is no sleep and the heart and mind are burdened, the passage of time feels very slow.
- In the long state of a night and the restlessness of the mind, every moment feels like a long period of time. The arrival of morning seems like a long journey, like “how many ages” have passed.
Message:
This phrase tells us that when a person is under mental or emotional stress, the speed of time also feels different. Not being able to sleep is not just a lack of physical need, but it is a symptom of a deep inner suffering, which makes a person feel that time is slowing down.
